Family Law (Scotland) Bill: Stage 1
Good morning. The first item of business is a debate on motion S2M-3233, in the name of Cathy Jamieson, on the general principles of the Family Law (Scotland) Bill.
First, I thank all those who were involved in preparing the stage 1 report on the Family Law (Scotland) Bill, in particular Pauline McNeill and the members of the Justice 1 Committee, and also members of the Finance Committee and the Subordinate Legislation Committee. I also want to express my thanks and appreciation to the many individuals and organisations that provided oral and written evidence.
The Justice 1 Committee's report is considered and balanced. I am grateful to committee members for their hard work and detailed consideration of the issues, for the constructive tone of the report and for their endorsement of the principles of the bill. Before I go into the detail of our response to the report, I will set out the context of the bill.
Family law is the one aspect of our legal system that touches everyone's lives. Not one of us here today is exempt from it. Many occasions are happy and joyous—the birth of a child and the marriage of a close friend or relative—but family law bites hardest when things go wrong, for example when a couple separates or one party falls ill or dies. We have consulted extensively on our proposed reforms, but it is important to hear people's views on these important matters and to reflect on them. An individual's opinion is often grounded in their own experiences, which are sometimes bitter, and there are many other people who argue from polarised positions. As we have discovered, the subject is not characterised by consensus, but I believe that the bill reflects the issues and interests of the majority and that our proposals have won general support from a broad band of responsible opinion.
I am in no doubt that family law needs to be reformed. We need a legal framework that supports families in today's Scotland. In the 1950s, around 90,000 children a year were born to married parents, compared with just over 4,000 a year to unmarried parents. Last year, by contrast, nearly 29,000 were born to married parents and more than 25,000 were born to unmarried parents. Of the 29,000 children born to married parents, many will subsequently be reared in lone-parent families or in families where adults other than their natural parents play a part. Therefore, we need to ensure that family law protects all those children, reflects their interests and recognises that they all deserve our full and equal consideration. We cannot and will not ignore their rights and needs. Family law in Scotland needs to reflect the reality of family composition, not try to determine it. I stress that we value families whatever shape they take.
We want to see stability in families. We want all our children to get the best start in life and we know that that can best be achieved in a stable, loving family environment. However, sadly, that is not always possible. Where a family faces difficulties, we want it to be supported and, wherever possible, its difficulties to be resolved at an early stage. Where family breakdown is unavoidable, we want the future to be resolved with the minimum disruption, conflict and acrimony and with improved outcomes for everyone, but especially for the children who are caught up in the dispute. That is why Scottish ministers have not been afraid to broach the difficult issues—to reform our divorce laws, to extend parental responsibilities and rights to include unmarried fathers, to introduce safeguards for cohabiting couples and to extend protection for the vulnerable.
Three core principles have guided our work: first and foremost, safeguarding the best interests of children; secondly, promoting and supporting stable families; and thirdly, updating the law to reflect the reality of family life in Scotland today. However, legislative reform on it own is not enough, which is why we are also working on a package of non-legislative measures. They include the development of parental agreements, which will be a tool to help parents who are separating to focus on their children and to consider their future needs; a charter for grandchildren, which recognises the importance of supporting children to continue to develop relationships with the people in their lives whom they care about; and an information campaign, because we know that reforming the law will not make any difference if people do not know about it. We all know that there are many myths and misunderstandings about the law that need to be addressed, and we will tackle that.
The stage 1 report is detailed in its consideration of the issues. I have responded formally to the specific issues raised and was able to respond to a number of them positively. For example, the Justice 1 Committee expressed concern that the law on interdicts is becoming increasingly complex and that our proposals would add to that complexity. Domestic abuse or violence is an insidious problem, and we accept that readily accessible remedies are needed. We are happy to take on board the committee's request that we simplify the rules for attaching powers of arrest to interdicts. I will lodge amendments on that matter at stage 2.
On a related matter, we are aware that Scottish Women's Aid is deeply concerned about safe contact for children and their mothers, and we share that concern. Domestic abuse is a scourge on our society. When women and children escape an abusive situation, their continued safety and well-being must be ensured. However, we also share the committee's concerns about the dangers that are inherent in introducing presumptions into this aspect of family law. The welfare of the child is the paramount consideration. Judges consider the facts and circumstances of each individual case before concluding what is in the child's best interests. We are considering the issues that were raised directly with ministers and with the committee during its evidence taking.
Today's debate is not about the details, but about the general principles of the bill, which, in the main, have received broad support. However, I will pick out a few of the key issues that were raised by the committee. We have proposed reforms to the rules on divorce. I recognise that it is a difficult and thorny issue, that there are many conflicting views, and that no reform will please everyone. The driving force behind our proposals is the belief that, where it is safe, children are entitled to the loving involvement of two parents in their lives, irrespective of how the parents feel about each other.
We do not propose to encourage or advocate divorce. As I have said, the best outcome would be for couples to confront and overcome their relationship difficulties, but the state cannot force people to remain married. A certain and increasing proportion of marriages will end in divorce. We want to reduce acrimony in divorce, especially where children are concerned, and enable couples who are determined to end their marriage to do so without unnecessary conflict and recrimination.
Forcing people to stay married when a relationship has clearly broken down adds nothing. I understand that people who accept the principles of divorce will have differences of view about the appropriate periods and that others will argue about the periods but will be opposed to divorce altogether. However, although I accept that we should do nothing that encourages the break-up of a relationship that might otherwise survive, we need to reflect on the increasing break-up of marriages. Our proposals accept the reality of life in Scotland today. I note that the committee has not yet reached a consensus view, and I look forward to further debate on this important issue at stage 2.
I accept that providing effective support for families is a key component, and I welcome the committee's recognition that the Executive has introduced measures to build capacity in the services that support family relationships. Centrally, we support the national organisations, and we have set them a challenging task—to raise their game, to provide services in a more integrated and coherent way, to maximise their efficiency and to strengthen the local network of services. However, there is only so much that central Government can do. We all know that the services that work best are those that are developed in response to local needs.
Local authorities have no less a role to play in developing and supporting services for families that face relationship difficulties than they do in any of the other services for families and children who are at risk. After all, such services are indirectly a service for children. The Convention of Scottish Local Authorities has argued consistently against ring fencing, because it believes that local authorities are best placed to make local decisions about the use of funding, but I know from many letters that I have received that there are concerns that in many areas insufficient support is provided for those services. I will discuss that with COSLA, but the Scottish Executive cannot be a substitute for local decision makers making local funding decisions on services for which they are currently responsible.
I am particularly glad to note that the committee welcomes the extension of parental responsibilities and rights to unmarried fathers and that it shares our view that legislation should encourage and promote fathers' participation in their families.
Before I finish, I want to say a few words about our proposals to introduce a package of legal safeguards for cohabiting couples. That is perhaps the most complex and controversial aspect of the bill and it is important that I set out what we are trying to achieve. I want to remind members of why we need the legislation. We need to introduce greater certainty, fairness and clarity to the law, and to protect the legally vulnerable when a relationship ends. What we have seen in the course of preparing for the bill, and what has come out during the committee's evidence taking, is that there are myths in Scotland about the rights that people have when they cohabit and myths about common-law marriages. Some people mistakenly believe that they have rights where no rights exist. That leaves them vulnerable and we need to address that.
Our proposals are not about undermining marriage or about creating marriage-equivalent rights for couples who have chosen not to marry. It is just as important to protect the right of adults to live unfettered by financial and other legal obligations towards partners and to balance that with the need to protect the vulnerable. Our focus has been on those cohabiting relationships that offer some evidence of the partners' commitment to a joint life. We have set out to create what I would argue is a fair regime to safeguard the interests of those in cohabiting relationships who may be vulnerable by virtue of their exposure to risk or harm, and to provide a fair and just basis for sorting out disputes between cohabitants when things go wrong.
The bill will bring Scottish family law into the 21st century. It will increase protection for the vulnerable and, most important, it will improve outcomes for our children. Our children should be able to live in family units free of acrimony and bitterness, whatever shape those family units might form or however they might be re-formed. Their needs should be at the forefront of all of our minds, particularly at the most difficult stages of family life. They should be innocent to the problems faced by the adults in their lives and free to enjoy their childhood without being used as pawns in adult disputes.
I move,
That the Parliament agrees to the general principles of the Family Law (Scotland) Bill.
Today we debate the role of the state in supporting families and family structures in modern Scotland. Stability and comfort come through enduring relationships, with the finance and the leisure time with which to enjoy them. Our communities as a whole share the benefits derived by individuals in such stable and comfortable relationships. By contrast, chaos and lack of stability in families lead to lack of social cohesion and of shared purpose in our communities, and damage far too many beyond the problem family with difficulties. A bill that aims to increase stability without compromising individual freedom ought to be one that gains wide support.
We should prefer the enabling that is implicit in a well-designed, well-structured, liberal family law bill. That is entirely consistent with the discomfort of many members at the previous focus on punitive control measures—antisocial behaviour orders and the like—designed to deal with the failures in too many families. Therefore, we welcome the move to positive support for families and, to some extent, away from punitive measures to address issues with families and offspring.
Children are at the heart of almost all couples' aspirations, so I welcome the emphasis on children in Hugh Henry's comments today. However, the first thing that I must say is that the proposals in the bill are strangely silent about children. We can glimpse the effects on their lives in some of the proposals—in the area of relationships post break-up, for example—but the core policy intentions for children, which have been articulated fairly clearly, are far from clear in the bill. However, the bill in its current form is the basis on which we can address and resolve those matters in subsequent stages of our consideration.
The Executive is in a hurry. Across the political parties, committee members have felt under considerable and perhaps unnecessary pressure to complete consideration of the bill. Indeed, we hear that the Executive would like stage 3 to happen before the end of the year, which is ambitious. I do not criticise the Executive for being ambitious, but is that unrealistic? Will it devalue and debase the bill that we ultimately pass? The distant sound of the tambours of election war already clamours in the Government's ears, to judge from the indecent haste with which the—as I shall argue—ill-developed legislation is being pursued. The consultation on which the bill is founded stretches back over a decade, so why there should be so many areas of uncertainty, continuing debate and change in the bill is a little bit of a mystery.
I will attempt to answer three questions. First, is the bill needed? Secondly, are the changes proposed necessary, sufficient and beneficial to—in order of priority—children, couples, society and the state? Thirdly, are the risks of the proposed changes high enough to sound alarm bells that we should take notice of?
Clearly, the bill touches on issues of personal morality, belief, religion and lifestyle, so the Scottish National Party will not be applying a party whip and I expect that the contributions from our benches on some of the proposals will reflect a range of views. I hope that my colleagues will largely support the onward passage of the bill, and I speak in the belief that most, and perhaps all, of them will do so, but I also speak from a position of personal involvement with the issues through the committee and elsewhere.
It was appropriate that Hugh Henry acknowledged that there will not be a universal welcome for the bill. Cardinal Keith O'Brien's submission to the committee restated the Catholic Church's position, stating that the
"Church opposes divorce in principle".
Of course, the cardinal is therefore unhappy with the proposed reduction in the periods required for divorce. He quoted Pope John Paul II as saying:
"What is missing in non-marital cohabitation is trusting openness to a future life together".
That is not a view that I hold, but it is one that will be important in our future consideration of the bill. We must take account of all views.
The minister will know that I have suggested that we should respond to lobbying from the Catholic Church by ensuring, for example, that when unmarried couples are registering their first child they are made fully aware of the options for building on and strengthening their relationship for the benefit of the child. Perhaps the state could make that information available to people in the hope that more people will enter into civil partnerships or progress to marriage to protect the future of the child. We would have to make people aware of the range of options.
I turn to some of the detailed comments that the committee has made. We certainly share the minister's concerns about the uncertainty surrounding marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute, in so far as it may exist. We support the idea of an informational campaign and recognise the need after the bill is passed—which I assume will happen—to raise awareness of the effects of its provisions. At the same time, we must ensure that marriage is also explained to the general public.
The minister will know that family support services are something in which I have taken an interest in the past, and I welcome what he has said about the Executive's objective of building capacity in the services that support family relationships, notably counselling and mediation. The reference to independent local voluntary bodies is entirely appropriate, and I would counsel that we need more support for them and perhaps less focus on the national bodies. That is of concern to my local bodies, which are already working together, collaborating and sharing premises, and are showing good practice for elsewhere. Local authorities have a role, but we must not let that role be to suppress the initiatives that are taken in the voluntary sector.
The minister's comments on the Protection from Abuse (Scotland) Act 2001 are welcome. The committee and I consider that that is a good basis for consolidating an increasingly confusing use of interdicts to protect people in relationships. The bill contains good, helpful provisions on parental responsibilities and rights. There are some difficulties with cohabitation. The Matrimonial Homes (Family Protection) (Scotland) Act 1981 already gave a definition of cohabitation, and we now have a new, different definition. As we move forward we might consider whether, by considering the definition within the context of a family law bill, we might be excluding some people who have relationships that are not familial in the conventional sense. For example, brothers who are bachelors and who live together might have similar interrelationships to the ones that are described and might reasonably expect to have similar protections. There are other examples. In other words, sex is not the only important factor and determinant.
We welcome the focus on long-term and enduring relationships. Financial interdependence, which the Executive is now focusing on, is a useful clarification of where we are going and how we should recognise cohabitation. On page 17 of the minister's response to the Justice 1 Committee's report, he talks of a couple who have given their energies and emotional and financial resources to a relationship and whose choices, particularly self-denying choices, are driven by expectations of a joint life. That is a useful clarification and one that I welcome.
Despite the clarifications about the distribution of assets at the termination of a cohabitation through death or break-up of the relationship, I continue to have concerns that the new way in which the fixed pot of money is to be redistributed in some circumstances will disadvantage children. The minister has pointed to some flaws in the committee's working on that issue but we must continue to watch it with great care.
I said that there were three important questions. Is the bill needed? Yes, I believe that it is needed and that it is time for an update. Are the proposed changes necessary, sufficient and so on? For children, the changes may be necessary and, to some degree, sufficient, although not necessarily to all degrees; for couples, they are necessary and, to some degree, sufficient, but the risk remains, particularly in reducing the time to divorce, that we may inadvertently be devaluing and destabilising relationships and attacking marriage, although I accept that that is not what we are trying to do. Society will benefit from greater clarity on and the extension of protections to people who are cohabiting, so the state and all the people in it will benefit. Therefore, I will support the bill at decision time. I hope that many members across the chamber will join me in doing so.
I apologise to the chamber for not being here at the beginning of the minister's speech.
When the Scottish Parliament came into being in 1999, one of the first bills that was mooted was a family law bill, so it was under consideration for almost six years before it was finally allocated to the Justice 1 Committee in February to be made a reality. The six years are significant, as they reflect the enormous complexities that surround family law, which has the potential to affect virtually everyone in Scotland. The bill covers a wide range of relationships—marriage, cohabitation, separation and divorce—and all the complicated issues that flow from them, which in turn have the potential to impact on different aspects of Scots law. The bill also confers parental responsibilities and rights on unmarried fathers on joint registration of a birth. That gives some insight into the enormity of the issues that are contained in the provisions of the bill. I put on record my thanks to the Justice 1 Committee's family law adviser, Professor Norrie, for his expert advice, thoroughness and infinite patience in analysing and explaining the potential consequences of what were often oversights and in some cases instances of misinformation in the proposals.
Relationships are rarely straightforward, a fact that was spelled out in triplicate during the committee's consideration of the provisions of the bill at stage 1. Quite simply, that process generated more questions than answers. That brings me to a fundamental point which, if the minister and the Executive take nothing else from today's debate, I hope that they will at least reflect on and take to heart for consideration of the bill at stages 2 and 3. I am talking about the totally inadequate timetable that was set for taking evidence from a host of interested parties and subsequently compiling the stage 1 report. As Stewart Stevenson confirmed, the inflexibility and rigidity of the time allocated to the bill have put the convener, committee clerks and committee members under huge and unjustifiable pressure, and have resulted in, for example, vital decisions being taken in a few brief minutes snatched from an already overcommitted lunch time. We may be a young Parliament, with much to learn, but surely the Scottish Executive and the business managers must realise that that is no way for Scotland's legislators to do business. Common sense dictates that the overwhelming priority must be to get legislation right rather than to ensure that rigid and arbitrary timetables are strictly adhered to.
On the policy intent and content of the bill, there are three key principles on which the reforms in the bill are founded: safeguarding the best interests of children; promoting and supporting stable families; and updating the law to reflect the reality of family life in Scotland. It is encouraging to see those principles reflected in the non-legislative proposals for the parenting agreement and the charter for grandchildren—documents that advocate a realistic and flexible child-focused approach, which seeks to encourage parents to co-operate to try to ensure that children of divorced or separated couples experience quality contact time with both parents and with the wider family.
Equally, however, there are proposals for which little or no evidence is available from the Executive to support the assertion that the reforms will safeguard the interests of children and support stable families. Specifically, those include the proposal to reform the forbidden degrees of marriage, to remove the barrier to marriage between individuals and their former in-laws; the proposal to reduce the period of separation prior to divorce from two years to one year for non-contested cases and from five years to two years for contested cases; and the proposal to provide new legal safeguards for cohabiting couples and their children, which the minister has confirmed affects the law of succession and could have an adverse effect on the legal rights of children in the event of a claim on the estate by a surviving cohabitant when a partner dies intestate.
Furthermore, while the committee has been clear that the reforms in the bill must not undermine the status of marriage, there is real concern that the proposals are heavily weighted in favour of mediation and hence seem to accept the inevitability of separation leading to divorce rather than to promote couple counselling and reconciliation in an effort to save the marriage.
Despite the Executive having the summer months to respond to the very real concerns that were expressed in the Justice 1 Committee's stage 1 report, fundamental questions remain unanswered. For all the reasons that I have just outlined, not least the totally inadequate time that was allocated to consideration of the bill, the Conservative group will abstain in the vote to approve the Family Law (Scotland) Bill at stage 1.
The Family Law (Scotland) Bill has been a long time in coming and the need for many changes cannot be denied. That was, I think, accepted by all parties in the Justice 1 Committee. I am sure that Margaret Mitchell will agree that we need change, despite the Tories' intention to abstain today.
The Deputy Minister for Justice has described the main focus of the bill, which I do not need to repeat. Society has moved on since 1989 when we—although, obviously, not me—first started to consider family law reform. Then, more than 50 per cent of families were within marriage. By 2001, that figure had fallen to 43 per cent and it continues to fall. Up to 50 per cent of children are now born in unmarried families. The current situation is different from that of 1989 in many respects, one good example of which is the change in society's attitude towards same-sex couples. Thank goodness, most now treat those relationships as perfectly acceptable.
There are, of course, a considerable number of contentious issues in the bill and it did not take long to find the first of those issues, in section 1 and new section 3. In essence, section 1 removes the barriers to some marriages between individuals who have no blood ties and are prevented from marrying at present. Our discussion on that during the committee's early consideration of the bill was contentious. New section 3 will deal with marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute. There has been a long-held view in Scotland that such couples were, in effect, married. More and more couples now cohabit and the bill gives greater protection to that type of relationship; I will say more about that later, but I am glad that the Executive will abolish marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute with prospective effect.
Section 10 deals with reductions in the times that are required for divorce, from five to two years in contentious cases and from two years to one year in uncontentious cases. Often, divorce is the end of a very long and slow process, with the couple agreeing to divorce only at the end of that period. Some divorces happen very quickly, but most take a long time. Once the couple have come to the decision to divorce, is it not better to shorten the time that is taken for the process to reach a conclusion?
I think that we all received recently a paper from Couple Counselling Scotland, which says:
"Once the decision has been made that the relationship is at an end waiting rarely changes it. A clean break rather than a difficult period with legal barriers still in place would be less stressful. If parents do decide to separate then counselling work with them on their role as parents as well as giving them the tools and insight via separation and divorce counselling so that they can part amicably thus benefiting any children involved."
Many other countries have a shorter timescale for divorce periods. In the Netherlands, for example, it is no time at all, and in Finland and Sweden it is only six months. I think that a year for uncontentious divorces is not unreasonable. I agree with everything that the minister said on that issue. I know that a fuller debate will take place on the issue during stage 2, and I look forward to that. Clearly, however, there was not a unanimous view in the committee.
The issue of religious divorce provoked a great deal of discussion in the committee. I am inclined to agree with the committee's view that the law should not conflate civil and religious divorce.
I hope that the member would agree that, while not interfering, we should not make things difficult for religious divorces.
I agree entirely. That is one of the issues that the committee will have to examine closely. I am sure that those detailed discussions will include the minister.
Section 17 aims to promote unmarried fathers' participation in their families through their acquiring parental rights and responsibilities if they register the birth jointly with the mother. That must be good for children and, as I have said before, the bill is about a better deal for children. Under section 4 of the Children (Scotland) Act 1995, a father can gain parental rights and responsibilities, but the courts grant them in only about 500 cases a year. Five years ago, in 2000, 14,000 births were registered by unmarried couples and the figure is even higher five years on.
The committee had very little time to discuss in any detail at stage 1 the issue of parental rights and responsibilities for step-parents and I believe that more detailed discussion will be needed and should take place at stage 2. A significant number of step-parents need the protection of parental rights and responsibilities. That would be in the best interests of the children of those families. Members are aware of the moving examples that have been presented to us by step-parents.
Alan Finlayson OBE was asked to prepare a parenting agreement to help separating couples. We saw the first draft of the agreement just this week. It is an extremely good document, which has been well worked out and will bring about favourable consequences for separating couples. The document is worth while and I am sure that the Executive will accept it. However, further resources will be needed and I hope that the Executive can commit some resources to promoting the parenting agreement. There is also a charter for grandchildren, which I think is positive.
Perhaps the most radical provisions in the bill are those in sections 18 to 23, which relate to cohabiting couples. The provisions intend to establish a firm statutory foundation for disentangling the shared lives of cohabitants when their relationships end. I believe that the changes will lead to greater certainty, fairness and clarity in the law for cohabiting couples. I look forward to further discussions on the matter at stage 2.
As everybody is aware, the bill is complicated. It is impossible to cover all the relevant points in one speech. I believe, however, that the Family Law (Scotland) Bill will make a considerable difference for families and for children in particular. That is what it is all about. I am, therefore, more than happy to accept the general principles of the bill.
We have a one-in-20-year chance to reform, and thereby improve, family law provision in Scotland. The bill will probably affect a majority of our citizens at some time in their lives, so we must take the time to get it right. At stage 1, the Executive showed itself to be sensitive to the very real issues that the bill covers, and it has responded to many of the questions that were posed by the Justice 1 Committee. I know that the ministers appreciate the very hard work that the committee and its staff put into the stage 1 report. It is important that members do not miss the point of this process, bearing in mind the fact that many of the issues that we will be asked to address are not contained in the bill itself.
The eventual act is likely to be known for reducing the time limits for divorce, and probably more so for the introduction of a framework of rights for cohabiting couples. There are other complicated and technical provisions, many of which will pale into insignificance when we consider what the bill is doing in providing that framework.
I fully support the status of marriage, and indeed the status that will stem from the Civil Partnership Act 2004. It is morally right that we give basic protection to the lives of couples whose finances are independent from those of each other but who are committed to each other and cohabit. It is right that we legislate as has been proposed. The Scottish courts need clarity in this area. Provisions for cohabitants will be different from the laws that cover marriage and more work needs to be done to get them right.
I am sure that no member underestimates the complexities and sensitivities of the bill. We cannot assume that families come in standard shapes and sizes any more and the law will have to deal with the circumstances of modern-day life.
It is fair to say that the Justice 1 Committee members have had their heads turned in trying to consider the complexities of real-life situations, particularly when it comes to applying the law in relation to cohabitants. For those who were previously married and later cohabit, who benefits from the estate on death? Is it the former spouse or the current cohabitant? The committee has had to wrestle with such difficult questions. How should children's succession rights be balanced with the need to provide something for the partner of the deceased cohabitant? Mike Pringle put it succinctly when he said that if we chop up someone's estate in a different way, there will have to be changes in who benefits. That is one of the realities of changing the law.
I believe that it is right that we legislate for the rights of unmarried fathers, but that will be meaningless unless they are able to exercise those rights in the interests of their child. The committee said that a lot of work needs to be done with health boards and schools to ensure that unmarried fathers have the right to get information about their child. It is not acceptable for our public authorities not to comply with legislation that we pass.
The committee said quite a bit about the review of counselling and mediation services, to which other members have referred. The Executive does not agree with the committee on that point, but I make it clear that, having considered it carefully, we thought that in the context of family law changes, the right thing would be to bring together the services and review what is required, rather than just continue to expand what is already there.
I will focus some of my remarks on a system—I say system, because the bill does not address everything that we want to discuss—that I believe has failed many parents post separation, when the non-custodial parent is, more often than not, the father, although it can be the mother. It is my held belief that grandparents' concerns are an extension of the problem. I have read too many letters and e-mails from parents who have had appalling experiences in the court system. The system is too costly—extremely costly in some cases—and the outcomes are not in the interests of the child. I am afraid that I do not accept the evidence of the Law Society of Scotland that going to court over such matters is inexpensive—Sylvia Jackson will talk about that.
Many decent ordinary human beings have been fighting in the courts in the interests of their children for five, six or seven years, at the end of which they have a huge bill but absolutely nothing in the interests of the child to show for it. There are cases in which the parent with the order for residence refuses to comply with it and is therefore in contempt of court, but we do not appear to have a remedy for dealing with that. In one case in Glasgow, after a father had been fighting in court for many years, the sheriff decided that it had been so long since the child had seen their father that it was best to overturn the contact order. I appreciate that I do not know all the circumstances of that case, but I cannot for the life of me understand why that would generally be in the interests of the child.
I have had a constituency case like the one that the member describes, in which the delay of more than two years was caused by the Scottish Legal Aid Board. By the time that the mother was told that she had legal aid to fight the case, she was denied contact with her children because of the time that had elapsed. I throw that example into the mix.
The member demonstrates ably that both mothers and fathers are affected, although there might be a gender imbalance in that area. Lawyers and sheriffs have told us that this is a no-go area for us, because we would be interfering with their discretion and that they are best placed to make decisions. I do not underestimate how difficult it is for lawyers and sheriffs to make hard decisions, but, as a politician, I am struggling to justify the situation.
Will the member take an intervention?
No.
Family law is sensitive. We have a one-in-20-year chance to change it. If we think that something must be done, we must consider it seriously.
There is light at the end of the tunnel. Glasgow sheriff courts operate a model whereby specialist sheriffs are hands-on in resolving disputes. The committee would like to see in more depth how that operates. I ask the minister to assist us in urging the profession to debate with us how we can resolve some of those sensitive issues.
There should be a deterrent against the refusal of one parent to comply with an order for reasonable access in the interests of the child, except of course in cases of domestic violence or where there are other legitimate concerns. I hope that we can resolve the issues that are faced by women who are subject to domestic violence.
The parenting agreement provides another opportunity to make available to the courts something that might be an important mechanism in achieving consensus between parents. Alan Finlayson is to be congratulated on his work on the parenting agreement. The agreement has been written in straightforward language and I think that it could be used, but it must have relevance in the courts. Sheriffs must be able to question parents who break the agreement that is made in the interests of the child. The only way forward that I can see is for the bill to refer to the parenting agreement. As we discussed in the Justice 1 Committee meeting yesterday—I am sure that the Executive would also say this—if we believe in the agreement, it must be made available by mediation and counselling services; it must be available absolutely anywhere where an agency comes across parents who are talking about what is happening post separation. The agreement could be put to good use, and I ask ministers to discuss with the committee how we could strengthen its importance.
On the difficulties that we face and the concerns that have been raised by grandparents, who are asking for a presumption in favour of the right to see their grandchildren—the committee supports the Executive on its decision in that regard—if we could ensure better-quality access and deal with some of the more difficult cases, we might be able to resolve issues for other family members who wish to have contact, in the interests of the child.
We need to be bold and to get this bill right. Let us debate it this morning, then take our time to do so.
I apologise to the minister for missing the first two minutes of his speech. However, the rest of it—and the speeches that we have heard thus far—exemplify the sensitivity of the issues involved and the care that politicians of all parties take in addressing them.
It is important that the people whom we represent in this Parliament see that those of us who are proud to be in political parties and to support those parties' economic and political platforms, can, nonetheless, take different views on matters of conscience. It is not that people expect that we should all vote in accordance with the party whip. The opposite is true: the people whom we represent expect that the party whip has no province in matters of conscience and morality. That is not to say that I stand up today to indulge in any polemics or any moral-majority campaign. I do so simply to express my views, which may or may not represent the views of all those in my constituency, which is the most populous in Scotland; in fact, it would be impossible for any of us to represent the views of everybody.
I agree with the minister that today's debate should be about high principle, not the detail, which comes later. I agree with the sentiments that have been expressed by all speakers so far that we should all promote marriage. It is quite possible for us to promote and cherish marriage, to seek to have it adopted more widely, to confound the statistics and reverse the trend as far as we can with whatever influence we have as legislators and representatives of the people of Scotland. However, it is important to accept that those of us who feel strongly about these issues and who promote marriage are not impliedly or explicitly disparaging those who choose, for whatever reason, not to enter into marriage. To believe that marriage is the bedrock and the basis for the best possible chance for the upbringing of children does not entail any criticism of people such as single parents, who might in fact do a better job than do some of those who have entered into the state of marriage.
I have been happily married since 1983. Margaret chose St Andrew's night as the day on which we should be married because, of course, that would leave me with absolutely no excuse for forgetting her wedding anniversary.
I stand before the chamber as an example of the imperfection of the human species—
Hear, hear.
It is rare for any statement of mine to be greeted with such widespread unanimity.
As such, I suggest that it is not the institution of marriage that is imperfect but some of us who enter into it.
The bill cannot in any way be said to undermine fundamentally the institution of marriage, but I think that it tinkers away at the edges. I believe that people who enter into marriage should do so "‘till death us do part". That is not always possible, but it is the ideal.
Scots law was reformed in 1976. Iain MacCormick, himself a Catholic, piloted the bill through the Houses of Parliament, which was a brave thing for him to do, given his background and beliefs. The Presiding Officer will remember those times. Iain MacCormick moved the law forward substantially by introducing non-cohabitation as a justification for the sole ground of divorce, which is, of course, the irretrievable breakdown of relations between husband and wife. In that regard, he introduced a period of two years for couples who had no children and a period of five years for couples who had children. The bill that we are discussing proposes to reduce those periods to one and two years respectively, as has been said.
As a solicitor practising in this field, I was conscious that a little-known provision of the Divorce (Scotland) Act 1976 is that lawyers have a duty to promote reconciliation. From time to time, someone—usually a woman—would come to see me about a divorce but, after the first meeting, I would not see them again. I accept that that happened in only a minority of the cases, of course. I would not see them again not because they had gone to another lawyer but because, I suspect, second or third thoughts took place over a period of time and a decision was taken to reconcile. I do not think that we should put barriers in place to prevent that from happening and I am slightly concerned that the reduction of the period from five years to two years does that.
I think that it is fair to say that, if only a short period of non-cohabitation is required in cases in which children are involved, there is a diminution in the status of the institution of marriage. I think that a period of two years is too short.
I do not disagree with the member's point about the need to be sensitive about how the time limits are reduced. However, does he agree that, perhaps, five years is too long a period in many people's lives and that that issue should be the starting point for our thoughts on this matter?
I have not reached a final conclusion on that matter. On balance, I think that the member is probably correct and that a period of three or four years might be better. I look forward to the debate on that subject, although I do not expect to be able to attend all the relevant meetings of the Justice 1 Committee.
It is to be welcomed that both the Moderator of the General Assembly of the Church of Scotland and Cardinal Keith O'Brien speak out on these issues. However, it is unfortunate that some of what they have said has been greeted with a negative reaction. We should congratulate them on entering into the debate. Some people would regard it as the duty of such people to do so and I welcome, not excoriate, their contributions.
The provisions in the bill relating to cohabitants can be criticised in substantial ways. If we are to have that new status, it has to be clear who is and who is not a cohabitant but that is not the case at the moment. Goodness knows how any sheriff could conceivably interpret the relevant section.
I am grateful to have had the opportunity to make this speech. I stand before members as an example of imperfection, seeking perfection in the law. I suspect that that task might be beyond all of us but, no doubt, we will try as best we can.
During the short period of time that I have been a member of the Scottish Parliament, I have spoken to what seems to be an increasing number of members who have expressed concerns about the time that is available to them to do their work as well as they are capable of doing it. We have heard similar concerns today from the Justice 1 Committee and I repeat those concerns now.
The issues that the bill addresses are complex. The committee report describes the bill as "disparate" and says that it was difficult for the committee to identify the basic principles that we are here to debate. However, I think that some simple principles should underlie our approach to the subject. Some people would prefer family law to be based on a set of unchanging, absolute truths, which I believe are irrelevant in a modern society. The social change that has occurred in recent decades, to which Mike Pringle referred, has had mixed consequences, of course, but the changes have been overwhelmingly positive and family law must keep up with the situation.
Some people argue that accepting any change to family law will undermine marriage. The phrase "undermine marriage" crops up often—it has done so a couple of times today—but it is an idea that, honestly, I have never fully got my head round. If I treat my fellow citizens with respect, that does not undermine my status as a citizen. If I value the skills and abilities of my colleagues, that does not lessen the value of my skills and abilities, however different they might be. I like to think that I treat even my fellow MSPs with respect and I hope that that does not undermine my ability to do a decent job. Respecting and legally recognising different forms of relationships and family in society undermines nobody's relationship. It could undermine the idea that one family is better than another. However, we should undermine the idea that one loving and committed relationship is superior to another. We should get rid of that idea completely. Love is love; commitment is commitment; and all families are due respect.
Marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute should be done away with, if for no other reason than the fact that its name is far too complicated. When I was working on the issue of civil partnership during the early months of this session, I met many mixed-sex couples who came out to me as bidie-ins or as having a common-law marriage. They told me many things about how their relationship was perceived by other people and by the state. It is right that the situation should be cleared up with regard not only to the law, but to people's perceptions.
The Deputy Minister for Justice recognised that people have various views about divorce. Some people are opposed to it in principle while others are not. That is precisely why the law has to give people the freedom to act on their own terms. Some people would not pursue divorce out of principle but, for others, a formally recognised relationship is a purely personal matter and is not the business of people and institutions other than themselves and the state. People have to be free to act in the interests of their family, on their own terms, if their relationship breaks down.
As Couple Counselling Scotland and Family Mediation Scotland observed earlier this week in a briefing session to MSPs, divorce is not, by definition, the end of all family relationships. Parents remain parents and children remain children. It is important to support couples who choose to stay together, but we also need to provide support to those couples who have no option but to separate. If we provide that support to them, they will be better able to remain active parents who can support their children.
Does Patrick Harvie acknowledge that grandparents remain grandparents and that—sadly—the bill does not address their needs or those of grandchildren?
The contribution that grandparents make should be greatly appreciated in terms of human values, but I am not convinced that it should be legislated on. However, I am open to debate if the member wants to try to convince me.
I am pleased that the committee's report reflects the importance of support services. The organisations that have briefed us on the bill make the case on human values for the work that they do. They also make the case in hard cash terms. They tell us that the conflict that their work tries to prevent or resolve costs the state far more than such services would.
The Executive has recognised the need to bear in mind non-legislative measures, but other bills that are on the Executive's agenda for the coming year will have an impact on families. Resistance to social change is already being expressed in relation to the proposed adoption bill. That resistance includes misleading interpretations of the Executive's intentions that have been expressed by some in public life who should know better. Some may simply fail to understand the consequences of the Executive's proposals—they are being misled rather than misleading. Others couch their objections in terms of such open prejudice and bigotry that anything less than a negative reaction would be dishonest.
The Greens will support the bill's principles at stage 1 and we look forward to supporting the Executive if it applies similar principles to its further work this year to support all families and children on equal terms.
The debate has been considered and has attracted quality speeches from members of all parties. That is absolutely right, because we are dealing with serious and sensitive issues. Before we examine the bill's detailed provisions, we must consider what the Government's approach to marriage should be. Should the Government support, oppose or be neutral on marriage? Before we answer that question, we must examine the impact of marriage on society.
Marriage has always been highly prized in the western legal tradition because of its social benefits to adults and children. All the evidence suggests that children whose parents are married do better than those whose parents are not married. That in no way denigrates the efforts of single parents, who often do very well in what can be difficult circumstances. However, the general rule—the evidence supports it—is that the children of married parents tend to live longer, have fewer illnesses, do better at school and have better nutrition, comfort and conviviality levels. They are more likely to be employed and less likely to be criminals than those who come from other homes.
Will the member give way?
Will the member give way?
I will in a second.
Furthermore, adults who divorce have a greatly increased incidence of heart disease, cancer, alcoholism and suicide. Those are the facts.
Who would like to intervene?
All of us.
If nobody wants to intervene, I will continue.
Given those facts, we should not apologise for saying that marriage, in the generality, is good for society. On that I disagree with Patrick Harvie, because I think that the evidence supports what I said.
I will not give way at the moment.
Of course some marriages break down—we all know of circumstances in which that has occurred. However, the fact is that most people marry and most marriages last for life. Some 65 per cent of children in Scotland live in a married couple household.
I return to my original question. I believe that Government policy should be neither opposed to nor neutral on marriage; it should support marriage. That is by no means a moral judgment. The judgment is based purely on the objective evidence that is available to us. In that respect, I support Fergus Ewing's comments.
Will the member accept that the sweeping generalisations that he makes are in severe danger of masking the huge variation in all the different shapes, sizes and forms of family? Will he accept that it would be wrong of the Parliament to legislate if it failed to recognise the variation in the quality of relationships in a range of family environments?
If Susan Deacon had listened carefully to me, she would have heard me say that I accept that exceptions to the rule always exist. However, the evidence is clear that, in the generality, marriage is good for society. Even the Scottish Executive admits that. Its document "Family Matters: Improving Family Law in Scotland" says:
"marriage remains the dominant family form in Scotland … and is … the preferable setting for bringing up children."
If we accept the premise that marriage should be supported, we should examine the detailed proposals in the bill. The bill will reduce the periods of separation before a divorce can be granted. As we have heard, some religious groups are concerned that that will lead to quickie divorces and increase the incidence of divorce. I am concerned that the Executive has not yet made the case for the reductions—it is interesting that the majority of the Justice 1 Committee agrees with that stance. Before the Executive proceeds with the changes, it needs to establish that they will not undermine marriage.
I am concerned about the lack of emphasis on reconciliation in the bill. Reconciliation and mediation are by no means the same thing. The Executive promotes mediation services, which provide a means to resolve conflict between couples who are divorcing. Those services are valuable, but they should exist in tandem with encouragement for reconciliation, which involves saving marriages through counselling. The evidence is that many people who divorce live to regret it. The standard research shows that more than 50 per cent of men and 28 per cent of women regret divorcing. We know that many couples become reconciled after considering divorce. If we accept that marriage is a good thing, surely it is worth putting some effort into achieving reconciliation.
In the short time that remains, I will express one more concern about the bill, which relates to the proposed new rights for cohabiting couples. People have a perfect right to cohabit if they wish. However, by so doing, they make a conscious decision not to enter into the legal contract that is marriage, with all its attendant rights and responsibilities. The bill intends to give cohabiting couples some of the rights that married couples have.
The suggestion is that cohabitation is a long-term alternative to marriage, but the evidence is to the contrary. The Executive admits that cohabitation is primarily a transitional state that often lasts about two to three years. Two thirds of cohabiting couples proceed to marry and about one third separate. As I practised law for many years, it is perfectly obvious to me that if people want the legal rights and protections that accompany marriage, they should marry. Civil marriage has no religious connotations, so there should be no civil or religious objections to it.
When I practised as a lawyer, I remember advising clients—usually young men who owned property—who told me, "My girlfriend wants to move in with me. I need to know the legal implications." I could tell such a man that his girlfriend would acquire no rights if he allowed her to move in. The presumption was that if the answer had been different, the couple would continue to live apart.
I listened intently to the deputy minister's speech, in which he said that there was doubt about what the law was. He is right. Confusion is felt about where the law stands—people do not necessarily understand the legal position. However, at least the current law is clear. Cohabiting couples have no rights. My concern is that we will move from clarity in the law to a position of uncertainty that involves subjective tests on cohabitation. That will not be a positive development.
Entering into a contract of marriage requires a conscious decision on the part of both parties. They both decide to take on the rights, responsibilities and legal protections in the role. The same cannot be said of cohabitation and I see no advantage to society or to individuals to create a form of marriage lite, which is what cohabitation with legal rights would be.
Much in the bill makes sense and should be supported, but we have reservations about other parts of it. I do not believe that I can support the bill's general principles. We should not rush to change the law without making a compelling case that change will be for the better for individuals and society. I regret that the bill does not yet pass that test.
I am pleased to hear that romance is not dead.
The Justice 1 Committee spent much time on producing the stage 1 report. I regret that we could not answer all the family law questions that needed to be answered, which reflects how difficult some of the issues have been. I welcome the fact that the Executive has placed the child's welfare at the centre of the bill.
I totally reject suggestions that the bill is anti-marriage in any way. I do not want to make personal comments, but I believe that the minister and the deputy minister would both be totally opposed to any such bill and that they recognise the value of marriage in our community.
It has been said that the bill addresses our changing society, but there have always been cohabitants and single parents. Perhaps we are only now accepting our responsibility to protect those people—and their children in particular—through legislation.
The first issue on which I will focus is section 10 of the bill, which proposes to reduce the separation periods before a divorce from two years to one year if there is consent and from five years to two years if there is no consent. Many different views on the proposal have been expressed in the committee and in the debate. The fact that I might have the same reservations as Fergus Ewing is a bit scary, but if what I have said about valuing marriage is accepted, the proposal in section 10 could be seen as perverse, particularly when no one—not even the Executive—can produce any hard evidence showing why a reduction would be desirable.
I accept that there was little—if any—reason for setting the limits at two years and five years and that any alternative period that I suggested would be arbitrary, too. Children in Scotland suggested that one reason for making the change to the five-year period is that five years is a very long time in a child's life. It is indeed a very long time in a child's life, but it is the parents who are divorcing. Children in Scotland and other children's organisations stress the importance of parents retaining contact with their children, so why should it matter whether the parents have a piece of paper that says that they are divorced?
Some may say that the long period involved increases acrimony between parents and that that will affect the children. However, as I have said, there is no hard evidence to support the suggestion that reducing the time limit for divorce will reduce acrimony. If there is acrimony, could it not continue, even after the divorce is granted? Acrimony most frequently arises from issues to do with access and involvement with the children or money. Such issues will not be resolved by simply stating that a divorce has taken place, whereas counselling or mediation support that is aimed at resolving differences might help to reduce acrimony.
I accept that there might not be hard statistical evidence to support the proposals, but I believe that we should take a commonsense approach. Mary Mulligan mentions the financial side of life. The financial matters of couples who are separating can at least reach a close with a divorce, because each of the partners then knows where they stand with respect to property and so on. That can give stability. I totally agree that people must then allow contact to continue, but that is a totally separate matter.
The member is saying that things will then stay the same and that a decision that is taken at the point of divorce will never change, but children's lives change and people's relationships with their children change. There will be on-going involvement, so the position is not quite as simple as she suggests. Counselling or mediation may reduce acrimony, but the issue needs to be considered further—we should not see the proposed reduction in timescales as a panacea to resolve acrimony and disputes.
The second issue that I wish to major on concerns what is referred to as mediation. I believe that we should consider providing support services beyond mediation. I recognise that the bill does not provide for such services, but I believe that they will be necessary if the legislation is to have the desired effect. It is sometimes glibly said that it is easy to get into marriage but much harder to get out of it. In a way, that is true. Should we not offer more information and education on what marriage means and the responsibilities that it brings?
We should offer counselling rather than mediation at the early stages for people who are experiencing difficulties with their relationships. If we value marriage, we should try to support couples through difficult times. Many couples would appreciate such support, but they do not currently feel that it is readily available. Mediation may have a role in resolving disputes when a relationship is ending. I suspect that Margaret Smith supports what I am saying. Options such as family group conferencing—as promoted by Children 1st—could also be helpful.
In his response to the Justice 1 Committee, the Deputy Minister for Justice, Hugh Henry, raised the issue of funding such services, which he has again mentioned this morning. I completely agree with him that such services should be provided locally and that it is not the Scottish Executive's role to provide for them, but I understand why organisations are nervous about that. The support services should be a one-stop shop. One reason why people do not use counselling or mediation is that they do not know where to go. Partnership conflicts and possible breakdowns of relationships are traumatic and we must ensure that it is easy for people to access the support services that they need.
Many issues—such as access, domestic abuse, which my colleague Marlyn Glen will talk about, grandparents and cohabiting—will be covered in the debate. Such issues have taken up a great deal of the committee's time and I am sure that they will continue to take up a great deal of the Parliament's time. However, we have an opportunity to adjust family law today. Family law will continue to evolve and we will continue to return to it. The bill's principles are clear, so I cannot understand why the Conservatives intend to abstain in the vote, even though they may disagree with the technicalities. We must ensure that we protect vulnerable people—particularly children—provide support services and make the law fair and understandable.
I have enjoyed listening to the measured tones of members in the debate. Sometimes we become rather heated in debates and adopt party-political positions, but this morning's approach has been much better, especially given the sensitivity of some of the matters that we are discussing.
The bill has been a long time coming. I understand criticisms relating to the great pace at which we are trying to reach a conclusion, but I also understand the difficulties in which the Executive might find itself.
Despite what members have said, I do not get the sense that we are trying to promote marriage and I do not see what in the bill promotes marriage. The case could be made that we should not promote marriage, but I do not think that we should make that case. Individuals have a series of choices. Some people choose to have fairly loose relationships and some people cohabit. There is a range of formally recognised relationships, including cohabitation, civil partnerships, civil marriages and religious marriages.
What is not clear, however, is the leadership that society wants and that the Scottish Parliament is going to give. Perhaps the issue comes down to value judgments. Some people will be critical if we choose to promote one type of relationship in preference to another type, but we should do so because there is evidence that marriage is the most secure and stable arrangement for children and, as many members have been at great pains to say, the bill aims to help Scotland's children.
Murdo Fraser also spoke about evidence. Does Mr Adam accept that the majority of evidence that can be cited compares marriage with all other forms of relationship? In other words, it compares people whose relationships have gone well—people who have felt secure in those relationships and have chosen to get married at some point—with people in various different kinds of relationship. However, the proper comparison should be between different people with similarly strong relationships, as that would enable us to find out whether the difference is made by the love and commitment that are involved or by the piece of paper.
It is inevitable that evidence that is gathered reflects a snapshot in time. I agree that the degree of commitment is important. However, if we consider Scotland's history, we will find that, three or four generations ago, if not longer, large numbers of children were also being born out of wedlock. That changed. The values and choices in society today may mean that we again have a large number of children born out of wedlock or who find themselves, through no fault of their own, in situations in which there is perhaps only one parent or another type of family relationship. That is not to say that that is what we want or that things cannot change. Things have already changed. The circumstances that I have described, which pertained perhaps up to a century ago, reflected the society that existed at the time, especially in the north-east of Scotland, where many of the men were moving around on short-term, feein contracts, which inevitably led to that kind of thing.
Like Brian Adam, I believe that marriage is the most important thing in providing stability for the children. However, surely the issue is not what our personal beliefs are; the issue is whether the state should show a preference for one form of relationship over another. That is quite a different issue.
I have tried to make that point. We ought to have a debate about that.
Not just in relation to the Family Law (Scotland) Bill, but in relation to many of the pieces of legislation that the Parliament has passed, we have tended to focus on the sexual nature of relationships—that factor has driven the type of legislation that has been passed. I would prefer the Parliament to take a lead in showing a preference while still trying to give rights to those who have chosen a different route. We need to offer more support to families who are in difficulty at an early stage, rather than trying to mediate and make the split less acrimonious. I know that some people in the voluntary sector are anxious to help the Government to achieve those aims. We can do more to support the family.
Although we need to make choices about where we would like society to go, we should still allow individuals to make their own choices. I do not think that the focus should be on the sexual nature of any relationship; it should be on individuals' rights. For example, I do not think that people should be disadvantaged financially just because they have not entered into a particular type of relationship; such factors should not be determined by the sexual content of the relationship.
Like others, I welcome the fact that we are addressing these issues. However, I have not yet decided how I will cast my vote tonight. I think that we have not quite got the principles right. We should be focusing on how we can encourage a strong, forward-looking family relationship arrangement for the future in Scotland, but I suspect that we are trying to put patches on things that have gone wrong.
The aspect of the Family Law (Scotland) Bill that I will discuss concerns access rights and the difficulty that some non-resident parents have in seeing their children even when court orders have been granted. The key issue is the enforcement of child contact orders.
I have become very aware of the serious issues surrounding the dispensing of family law, which leads in certain cases to both financial and emotional problems for non-resident parents. Possibly the best way of giving members an idea of the problems is to quote directly from the submission of a constituent of mine to the Justice 1 Committee. He says:
"I have now been going to court for eight years, I have a court order for contact but the family courts fail to uphold their own order. Despite the number of court hearings involved, I have been unable to defend myself against accusations against me regarding my children … The court has never allowed the production of evidence to the contrary. I find this highly frustrating and unjust … I have lost all my savings, life insurance, sold my home to release funds to cover legal costs and now find myself in a position where once again I will be required to sell my current home to cover further accrued legal costs. Thus I have a choice to make, lose my home or walk away from my children. If I don't have a home what hope is there of getting access, if I keep my home … what use a house if it means giving up the fight for my children?"
A number of distressing facts are mentioned in that extract. The first issue is the high costs involved, as Pauline McNeill mentioned. Those costs can run into thousands of pounds. Last week, the same constituent paid a further £3,000 for legal expenses, bringing the total to £30,000. If we include loss of earnings due to legal and other proceedings to do with the case, the total becomes £50,000. From discussions with other non-resident parents, I have learned that bills of thousands of pounds are not uncommon. I have details of a bill for more than £2,000, according to which the writing of a report can cost the client more than £200. Another non-resident parent says:
"At the moment my case has reached a staggering £6-7,000 and I've not been to court yet."
Another non-resident parent tells of a bill of £30,000, and yet another says:
"I have spent to date £18,500 on legal representation."
So much for the Law Society's claim that legal representation costs about £500. As members can imagine, financial problems often develop, leading to loss of home, loss of savings and a growing difficulty in showing the court that the non-resident parent can provide the stable home environment that they once had.
The second big issue is the time that the legal proceedings take, which often leads to disruption to work and, hence, other financial problems. As court proceedings to regain access rights drag on—for eight years, in my constituent's case—there is a greater chance that the non-resident parent and the children will become increasingly alienated from each other. Added to that are the effects on the health of the non-resident parent, especially the emotional effects. Some non-resident parents also suffer the distress of hearing that their children may be in real danger. That was the situation in the well-documented case in which Dean Gray, a non-resident father in Fife, tried to get help through the care agencies for his two-year-old son. All his efforts were in vain, however, and his son died at the hands of his mother and her boyfriend, both of whom are now in jail.
It is clear that getting parents together as quickly as possible to agree access arrangements is critical. Mediation is important, but it must be speedy and effective. It is not acceptable that the resident parent can decide not to attend mediation; attendance must be compulsory and access arrangements must be agreed. A record has to be kept. There must be a system of ensuring that the agreement is kept to and works. Resident parents must be made to attend further meetings when access is withdrawn, so that the reasons for the withdrawal of access can be explained and discussed with the non-resident parent, who should be able to counter the claims that are made.
My constituent has, so far, been unable to counter any claims that have been made by the resident parent. He has been told that that can be done only at the proof or full hearing stage. If children are shown to be in immediate danger, steps must be taken to safeguard them and court orders granting access rights to non-resident parents must be upheld. The court has a clear duty in that respect. The Justice 1 Committee's report talks about setting up specialist family law courts and mentions the pilot schemes that are in operation. I have spoken to the convener, Pauline McNeill, about that. I would be interested to know how speedily those courts operate in enforcing court orders and about the costs to non-resident parents. I ask the minister to consider that specific issue.
The parenting plan sounds like a good idea in principle, but it will need to be a basis on which the courts can enforce access rights. The Family Law (Scotland) Bill must say explicitly how that will be done. Like the Justice 1 Committee, I recognise that the issue is a difficult one, as is the enforcement of child contact orders. I have seen the material that has been provided by the Scottish Parliament information centre about the models that exist in other countries. We might not want to adopt some of those models, but I urge everyone to look at them again over the coming weeks and months to see whether we can solve the problem and improve the situation. Although the general thrust of the bill is fine, I believe that it must say more about the enforcement of child contact orders and how parenting agreements will be upheld.
In his letter, Gary Strachan said:
"The evidence, outlined in this letter, shows that a child's welfare is best served by having both parents involved in their lives and that ignoring this fact is a breach of Human Rights legislation."
Let us make that principle work in practice.
This is not one of those politically charged occasions when the rhetoric flies across the chamber and which are so much beloved of the minister and me. The debate has been measured and reasoned, and rightly so.
That said, it is also fair to say that although it is acting from the very best of motives, the Executive has put us in a position of genuine difficulty. Like the literary curate's egg, the proposed legislation is good in parts, other parts are unnecessary and some are just a little bit questionable.
The minister is quite right to say that we have to adapt to the times and to the morals of our age. The days of the nuclear family are long gone and most households do not resemble the Scottish equivalent of the little house on the prairie. We have to acknowledge that, adapt our thinking and examine our law accordingly. Of course the minister was also totally right—this must come through in every member's speech—that our paramount concern must be for the children of failed relationships.
We should make it quite clear that many people choose not to get married. Sometimes that is because of a legal impediment and at other times it is a personal choice. I have little difficulty with the proposals in the bill that will make life a little bit easier in that respect, although—as one of the few members present who has no personal interests to declare—I suggest that the simple expedient of making a will would resolve any problems with property rights. To that extent, the legislation is perhaps a little bit unnecessary. We must acknowledge that people's personal choice is just that.
However, we also have to recognise—this was expressed eloquently by Brian Adam and Murdo Fraser—that as far as a child is concerned, the preferred option is to be living in a stable family relationship of which marriage is one of the constituent parts. Although I say that in full recognition of the fact that many single parents—mostly women—have done a tremendous job in bringing up their children, the Executive's own statistics prove that a child has the best possible chance in life if he or she comes from such a stable background.
I do not think that we should put impenetrable barriers in front of people to try to make them preserve a relationship that has failed, but neither should we make divorces easy by reducing the prescribed waiting time to one year. In illustration of that, I will cite an example from among my acquaintance.
The couple had been married for seven years and had what would be described as a good marriage. They had two children and did all right out of life. They had a nice house and were a nice family. The woman, however, became infatuated with a man with whom she worked and began a sexual liaison to which she came to attach greater emotional significance, so she left her husband. She later discovered that all was not as she thought it was, and that this well-to-do man had misled her into leaving the household. For almost two years she was infatuated and then she realised that she had made a major mistake. If the law had been as we now seek to make it through the proposed legislation, that marriage would have been dissolved. However, she returned to her husband and I attended their silver wedding anniversary three years ago. We have to acknowledge that people make mistakes. The proposed legislation will not assist in the avoidance of such mistakes.
We should also consider access. I have read the proposals on several occasions and I do not believe that they are going to make access easier for the father of a child. We have all heard the nightmare stories, usually involving the Child Support Agency, about people who have been irresponsible about contributing to the upkeep of their children. However, as I understand it, unless there is joint registration of the birth, the father of a child does not have access to the child in the event of the marriage or relationship foundering. That is quite wrong. The required consent could have been withheld on the ground of vindictiveness or it might simply be because there has been sole registration as a matter of convenience or expediency. I will listen very carefully to the rest of the debate in the months ahead because that must be considered.
I also have some sympathy with the claims of grandparents. There can be no doubt that the involvement of grandparents is very positive in the lives of children, particularly the lives of children who become vulnerable after a relationship breaks down. I do not know whether we should legislate for that, but it seems that scant regard has been paid to the arguments thus far. It might well be that once those arguments are rehearsed I would not be willing to agree to legislation, but that remains to be seen.
I recognise what Bill Aitken is saying about grandparents' contributions; others have mentioned it. As a grandparent myself, I know how much I value my contact with my grandchildren.
We started out by considering a grandparents charter, but we came to realise that we should be considering the needs and rights of the grandchildren, so we have renamed it the grandchildren's charter. It will reflect the contribution of grandparents, but we have to consider the children first and others second.
I am obliged to the minister for that contribution. I look forward to hearing the other arguments that will be advanced about the general content of the bill in the months ahead. For the moment, we do not feel that we can support the bill and will abstain at decision time.
I am proud, as I hope many other members are, that the Parliament was founded on family-friendly principles in respect of the hours that we keep, the facilities such as the crèche that visitors enjoy and our accessibility. Our family-friendly label refers primarily to our working practices, but I believe that it extends beyond that.
When the Prime Minister and his family moved into 10 Downing Street in 1997 and Cherie Blair gave birth to Leo, it was widely commented that that was the first time in living memory that a baby had been born to a serving Prime Minister. Of course, that experience is not uncommon among MSPs; Tommy Sheridan is the most recent recruit to our ranks. Fiona Hyslop, Shona Robison, Alasdair Morrison, Nicol Stephen, Dennis Canavan, Karen Gillon, Susan Deacon and Wendy Alexander who is soon to join us—
Twice.
That is right. That list is not comprehensive, but a sizeable number of MSPs have become parents since being elected, and we are all distinguishable by our tired looks and small sticky stains on our shoulders. I was thinking of forming a cross-party group, but I noticed that the one large party that was missing from the list was the Tory party. I hesitate to draw a conclusion but I wonder whether that is linked—
Jamie McGrigor.
Yes. We can form a group. I was wondering whether it was linked to the Tories' declining popularity and numbers.
Becoming a parent is only one aspect of family life; we are all part of a family at different ages and stages and we bring that experience to bear in the chamber. I suggest that Parliament is naturally sympathetic to and particularly understanding of families, specifically of the need for children to be brought up in a safe, secure and loving environment. That sympathy and understanding is reflected in the bill and in its treatment by Parliament.
I believe that the bill and the family-support measures that accompany it recognise that being a parent is not an easy job. I am not sure that it has ever been otherwise, but I am sure that it was particularly difficult for our parents and grandparents because families were generally far larger in the past than they are now. However, the pressures of modern life are great, particularly for the many mothers who must juggle work with child care responsibilities and bringing up families. The situation is not all doom and gloom, of course, because such juggling has meant that fathers have had to take a greater share of child care, which has been a liberating experience for many men. However, the child care situation has undoubtedly been difficult for families, particularly mothers. Many families have buckled under the strain, while others have adapted to it.
The bill is not prescriptive. It does not say that there is only one way to support each other, one environment in which to bring up children or one way to relate to one another across the generations. I believe that we live in a society in which marriage is still the strongest relationship in which to support a family, even though 40 per cent of children are born to unmarried parents.
The bill supports the relationships that we hold most dear: it supports the bonds between parents and children. The bill's intention is to protect such bonds when they come under most stress, which is during marital or relationship breakdown. If we are trying to encourage and support parental responsibility, and to maintain stability, security and continuity in a child's life, it is right that we should extend rights and responsibilities to unmarried fathers. We may regret that so many marriages break down irretrievably and end in divorce, but if we are genuinely interested in maintaining strong relationships within families, we must do what we can to reduce the acrimonious and adversarial nature of divorce proceedings and family break-ups. To my mind, the bill is not about making it easier to divorce; it is about making divorce less acrimonious. Divorce is not an easy business and no one can ever approach it lightly, but it can be less damaging, particularly for children who are directly—if inadvertently—caught up in disputes.
I flag up my own interest in a specific issue to do with divorce and my intention to lodge an amendment at stage 2 to address my concern. Within the Jewish community, a couple who have had a civil divorce but not a religious one cannot remarry under Jewish law. In such situations the woman is referred to as being chained. This has led to many upsetting and unhappy experiences, as members might imagine. Effectively, one half of a divorced couple can use the religious relationship to exercise control over their former partner. I imagine that none of us here finds that acceptable or desirable. I understand that some members of the Justice 1 Committee have questions on that issue, but I hope that we can address any concerns at stage 2 with what would be a simple amendment that would encourage divorcing couples to obtain a religious divorce but would not oblige them to do so.
Mike Pringle said earlier that he was concerned about conflating religious and civil divorce. The difficulty is that religious and civil marriage are already conflated. For example, a Jewish marriage is automatically recognised under Scots law. However, the absence of a link between the civil and the religious at the point of divorce is part of the current problem. Many members have signalled their support for my proposed amendment and I hope that the committee will continue to look at the matter sympathetically.
I acknowledge that the support measures and the range of family services that accompany the bill—but which are outwith its scope—are important. The family support services, the current review and reform of child protection generally, the children's hearings system, the investment in nursery and early years education and child care, the early intervention programmes and the development of antisocial behaviour orders and parenting orders are all part and parcel of what I believe is a comprehensive programme that will support families when they most need it and which will urge all our citizens to exercise responsibility as well as to enjoy rights and freedoms. This family-friendly bill is part of that programme and framework and I urge colleagues to support it.
First, I tender my apologies to the minister and to members for my late arrival, which was due to circumstances outwith my control and had nothing to do with cricket balls.
I was formerly a family lawyer for 12 years, so that experience will obviously colour my observations on members' remarks and on the committee's report. Indeed, my experience as an individual will also affect my observations. My views on the bill and the issues that arise from it differ from those of Fergus Ewing and Brian Adam—I believe that we should not take party lines on the bill.
I commend the report for being sensitive and thoughtful and I commend members for what they have said in the debate. Whether I agree with them or not, they have all brought different dimensions to the debate and have made it interesting.
I think that the difficulty for us lies in trying to structure the law to deal with people who are in emotional turmoil. When a person walks into a lawyer's office in such circumstances—it is usually the woman, as Fergus Ewing said—they can seem at first to be in control of their emotions, but often within 10 minutes they are in tears and the hankie is brought out. Their lives tend to be chaotic emotionally and in their work at such times, and they are usually worried about what will happen to their children and their home.
We are trying to structure something that will take the edge, the nastiness and the adversarial nature out of such circumstances, although it is not always possible to do that. I do not want to go into the individual cases to which members have referred, but my experience is that it is usually one of the parties in a relationship who causes the acrimony; it is not caused by the solicitors, the sheriff, the judge or the Court of Session. When children are involved, every effort is made by parties representing both sides to act in the children's interests. In doing so, they are also acting in the parents' interests, because the unhappy moments will pass and 10 years down the line, for example, mum and dad might have to be at their daughter's wedding or a christening. Therefore, we want the parents to be able to speak to each other. We do not want them to put such bile into their relationship that they cannot do so and end up, for example, not being able to see their grandchildren. It can be like trying to square a circle.
I also want to raise the issue of marriage and cohabitation. I do not take the view that marriage is necessarily the best relationship for children to grow up in. I think that the best relationship is a happy, loving, caring, responsible one, whoever is involved in it, whether grandparents, an auntie or someone else—it does not matter, as long as they give the children stability. I suspect that many children of married parents are unhappy because their parents bicker and stay together only to save face or for other reasons. It would be kinder for children and others in such situations if parents faced reality and accepted that, although they had tried, the marriage was not working and that it was in neither their interests nor their children's to keep up the façade.
I agree with Fergus Ewing that the first duty of a solicitor when a marriage breaks up is to try to reconcile the husband and wife. I never forgot that obligation when such people came into my office. When a person bursts into tears after 10 minutes in a lawyer's office, the lawyer should not start by trying to divide the matrimonial property or by talking about what will happen to the children. The wife and husband should be allowed to talk to each other and the lawyer should listen. Sometimes, the husband and wife will resolve their problems themselves. Unfortunately, my experience was that everyone usually returned to my office in due course for a divorce or a separation agreement. Only one husband and wife with whom I dealt were reconciled, but I heard years later that they subsequently divorced. However, they had at least tried reconciliation to save their marriage. I distinguish between reconciliation and mediation. The latter has always had an important role to play in the sense of formal mediation or of solicitors sitting down informally together to talk about their clients to try to resolve property rights and rights in respect of children, who are usually the biggest issue.
My experience therefore is that divorce is not easy. It is extremely painful for at least one of the parties and it is, unfortunately, painful for the children.
I approve of the move towards the view that recognising marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute has had its day. The report refers to that issue. I once obtained in that way—it was a one-off—recognition of marriage for a woman who wanted to receive her deceased partner's pension. I am glad that we seek to acknowledge that couples who think that they are in common-law marriages and have rights in respect of children and everything else do not have such rights.
Members will realise from the flow of what I have said that I support divorce after one year with consent and after two years without consent. I want no-fault divorces. I have seen too many averments put down in divorce proceedings in which the pursuer says nasty things about the defender and vice versa and then the children get to read them. That method is used to put pressure on the parties and to get the divorce over with quickly. I want that sort of thing to be taken out of the system. We are dealing with people; they are nice people and they will reconstruct their lives, so let us not put fault into the matter. When one party decides that a marriage is at an end, it is at an end. Let us give that marriage a decent burial and allow the parties to move on.
We are debating the principles and the aim of the Family Law (Scotland) Bill. As we have heard, the aim is to modernise the law to reflect society in the 21st century. I had hoped that support for the bill at this stage would be unanimous, because it is obvious that the law needs to be updated. To abstain on such important issues is not acceptable. Members need not only to engage in the debate, but to make difficult decisions.
Will the member give way?
Perhaps I will give way later.
I refer members to the Scottish social attitudes survey 2004, on which the Justice 1 Committee heard a presentation yesterday, and I draw members' attention particularly to the division of attitudes that was revealed by the survey. The survey found that attitudes are divided along the lines of age, sex and education. Younger people, women and people with education were more tolerant and liberal on questions of family law. As I said yesterday, it is unfortunate that the membership of Parliament does not mirror the make-up of society.
During the summer recess, there was a question in the democracy exhibition in the Parliament foyer about how many MSPs there are, but it is more interesting to consider how many MSPs there are under the age of 40. The Family Law (Scotland) Bill has to cover people who are actively in families; most of them will be under 40. We have to consider that, and I recommend that everyone read the survey.
The bill's proposals are wide ranging, from considering how Parliament can get rid of the status of illegitimacy and phase out marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute to giving responsibilities and rights to unmarried fathers and—of central importance—financial protection to cohabiting couples. All those proposals are necessary and laudable, but many details will have to be considered. For example, the Executive's response to the Justice 1 Committee's report confirms that amendments will be introduced to ensure parity between civil partnership and marriage. I welcome that commitment, but will that parity be a simple parity on matters that the bill covers, or a wider parity to even out anomalies that were left in the Civil Partnership Act 2004? We will have to address many such questions of detail, and I urge the minister to consider the issue.
Every individual has experience, good or bad, of family life, and people's insights can be useful in consideration of the reform of family law. However, the law has to help in a general way; it should not be skewed to right an individual family difficulty. We have all heard heart-rending stories about what people want and what people think the law should redress, but we have to work towards clear and workable legislation that provides legal protection for all families. One difficulty is that individuals sometimes need to be protected from other members of their own family. We would be failing if we did not legislate to include safeguards to cover such situations—in particular, safeguards for children in relation to post-separation contact orders.
The welfare of the child is central to the bill, but we must debate how the child's welfare can be promoted. Momentum is building as a result of campaigns—for example, by Children are Unbeatable!—for the bill to include legal reform that would give children the same protection as adults under the law on assault, and to use this opportunity to promote positive and non-violent discipline.
There are other urgent and more fundamental challenges. Children need security; research shows the need for a settled primary care giver. As has been suggested, the phrase is gender neutral, but in our society the primary care giver is generally the mother.
One of the many difficult issues will be how to legislate for children when a relationship has broken down and both partners still desire to maintain contact. Real tension can develop when two people have different perspectives and no agreement. If agreement is possible, the guidance in the excellent proposed parental agreements could play an important role in ironing out the practical difficulties of shared parenting. The importance of working out an agreement is central. The parents must be encouraged to agree about child care and contact. If we consider forcing contact, we will lose the child-centred perspective. Children are aware of conflict; they know when people are putting up a façade. We need to take account of research and to listen to social workers, carers, psychologists and so on, so that the Family Law (Scotland) Bill can reflect what we know about child development.
Scottish Women's Aid is anxious that children should not be forced to meet a non-resident parent if there is a chance of harm being done. The organisation's campaign for safe contact seems to be a basic requirement and the issue has to be tackled. I urge the minister to continue in dialogue with Scottish Women's Aid so that the bill will contain practical provisions to ensure the safety of children who are vulnerable.
We have considered specialised family law court systems; perhaps such a system should be introduced throughout the country because our children have to be protected in our courts. As I say, I urge the minister to continue a dialogue with Scottish Women's Aid. The Justice 1 Committee is continuing such a dialogue.
We must also consider the non-entitled spouse's right of occupancy after separation. The Executive's response to the committee's report cites the charge of fraud as the remedy, but that is not an adequate response if a woman is losing her house.
I welcome the changes that the minister has already mentioned, especially in relation to sorting out the complexity of legislation on interdicts and powers of arrest. I conclude by urging members throughout the chamber to support the bill.
I express my regrets to other members who wished to speak, but I have to move now to closing speeches, which will be allowed a strict six minutes.
I start by referring to a couple of issues that might not have been referred to during the debate. One is the abolition of illegitimacy, and I will quote from the written submission of the Law Society of Scotland to the Justice 1 Committee. The society said that
"the only remaining remnant would seem to be the law on titles, coats of arms etc. For many years, illegitimate and legitimate people have had the same rights of succession. The Sub-Committee considers that the time has come to abolish the status of illegitimacy, as recommended by the Scottish Law Commission."
I am very pleased that Executive lawyers seem to be discussing with Scotland Office lawyers how to remove the remaining statutory obstacles to removing the status of illegitimacy. However, I suggest to members that, as lawyers are involved, they should not hold their breath.
A second issue that I want to raise with the minister concerns financial provision on separation. If not today then at a later date, I would like an answer to the following situation, which was raised by the committee's legal adviser. A man moves in with a woman who has two children. Later, he moves out. He has been in a cohabiting relationship but, after he leaves, he will have no obligation to share the caring costs with the woman.
That scenario is very different from that of two women in a same-sex couple who decide to start a family together. One woman becomes pregnant on the expectation that she will have indefinite support from the other because they have made the decision to have a child together. If, after having agreed jointly to have a child, the women separate some time later, it is surely more just to require the non-genetic parent to continue to contribute than it would be if she had not been party to the decision to procreate. The fact that she is not a parent for legal purposes is obviously a quirk of the law. It does not justify relieving her of the obligations that she undertook when the child was created through a positive and joint decision. Should an exception not be made for child care cost claims when the child has been brought into existence by the joint plan of both women?
This has been an extremely good debate. I agree with Stewart Stevenson and Margaret Mitchell about the pressures caused by the timescale. Their points were well made.
Stewart Stevenson talked about resources. I went to see Children 1st, which runs a family group conferencing system. Children 1st told me that only 13 out of the 32 councils in Scotland participate in that system. That comes down to resources. Family group conferences, and the new parenting agreements that others have mentioned, will reduce conflict—if we can ensure that resources are put in.
I agree entirely with Pauline McNeill's comments about the need to extend parental rights to unmarried fathers. That is only fair. She also referred to disputes that involve a parent who refuses to accept the court's decision. On that issue, Sylvia Jackson—I am sorry that she has left the chamber—put the case extremely clearly. Indeed, the evidence that the committee heard from her constituent—he appeared before us as an individual member of the public, which is unusual—impressed all committee members.
I agree with Mary Mulligan that the bill will not undermine marriage, but I could not agree more with Ken Macintosh that the bill will make divorce easier and that, in doing so, it will surely be to the benefit of children. However, I accept Mary Mulligan's point that the whole issue of divorce will need to be discussed long and hard by the committee and I realise that some committee members might still need to be convinced by the proposals.
Christine Grahame, Mary Mulligan and Sylvia Jackson said that lawyers are willing to help in providing conciliation. I entirely accept that but, as Sylvia Jackson pointed out, the issue is the timescale and the endless amounts of time involved. As we all know only too well, lawyers' time is extremely expensive. We need to get the legal profession to speed up the whole process from start to end so that people are more able to get their point of view across in court.
Sylvia Jackson also pointed out that, when relationships break up, the father is often the one who is left out on a limb. Fathers must be given more opportunity. Surely they should have as much right as the woman to continue to see the children of their former marriage.
The debate has been extremely interesting. I am sorry that the Conservatives will abstain from voting on the motion. I accept that, as two Conservative members said, marriage is the best way of raising children, but in today's society, in which fewer and fewer are getting married, marriage is absolutely not the only way of raising children.
After so many excellent speeches, I cannot help feeling that, unless individuals are driven to extremities, they are well advised to steer clear of lawyers—I say that as a former lawyer.
Before summing up the debate, I should mention an interest, in that as a back bencher I introduced into the House of Commons two 10-minute rule bills: the Law Reform (Husband and Wife) (Scotland) Bill and the Law Reform (Parent and Child) (Scotland) Bill. Under the first of those bills, I was responsible for the perhaps extremely controversial reform that abolished praepositura. As not all members may remember what praepositura was, let me refresh some memories by clarifying that, in layman's language, it might fairly be described as the assumption that husbands will always pay their wives' bills for household goods. Although I had some sympathy with that concept, rightly or wrongly I took the view that, at a time of equality between the sexes, praepositura was not in keeping with the spirit of the times.
The Law Reform (Parent and Child) (Scotland) Act 1986 sought to abolish the stigma of illegitimacy by giving equal rights to children of unmarried parents where their parents had left no will. The act also abolished the Bastards (Scotland) Act 1836, which contained such an appallingly patronising sentiment that I am not even prepared to repeat it now that the document has been consigned to the dustbin of history, where it belongs.
The Conservatives are glad to agree with major aspects of the Family Law (Scotland) Bill. For example, we welcome the extension of protection against domestic abuse that will be delivered by extending the scope of matrimonial interdicts and by introducing domestic interdicts to cover the applicant's home and place of work and the school that any relevant child attends. Those are important and necessary protections. Similarly, we believe that a father who is not married to the mother of his child should automatically acquire parental responsibilities and rights if he jointly registers the birth with the mother. Those reforms are wholly admirable and should go through.
However, we will abstain in today's vote on the general principles of the bill. Although we believe that many areas of family law are in need of reform, we are concerned that the measures to reduce timescales for divorce will undoubtedly make divorce easier. We are not persuaded that such reforms will not undermine the institution of marriage. The minister has heard the serious concerns that were expressed by my colleague Murdo Fraser. We hope that, after listening to the views that have been put forward in today's debate, the Executive will give reassurances at stage 2.
I wish to make it clear that I altogether respect the honourable intentions of those who introduced the bill. I see these matters not in black and white but primarily as matters of balance and judgment. I have no doubt that relevant issues will be considered in depth during the bill's committee stage, but at this stage we are reserving our position until we know exactly how the bill will develop.
In addition, I invite the minister to consider the representations of Scottish Women's Aid. As Marlyn Glen, who dwelt on the subject, has already explained, Scottish Women's Aid believes that the bill should legislate to safeguard children who live with domestic abuse. In such a difficult and sensitive field, I hope that full consideration will be given to those representations, as everyone should have the right to live free from abuse and fear.
In conclusion, we recognise that the bill needs to address certain aspects of family law that need to be modernised. This morning many MSPs, including Mike Pringle, have supported that view. However, our hope and aspiration is that that should be done in a way that does not jeopardise the institution of marriage, which has served our country so long and so well.
The task for the Executive is rather like that which was given to ancient mariners who had to encounter the dangers of sailing between Scylla and Charybdis. In other words, ministers need to modernise the law, but they must also avoid undermining the institution of marriage. Completing that task should not be beyond the wit of mankind and, most certainly, not beyond the wit of ministers.
I have a great deal of sympathy for what Lord James Douglas-Hamilton said, although I do not necessarily agree with all the points that he made. However, he put matters very eruditely.
There are many poignant aspects to this clearly difficult debate. When we are interviewed by school kids, as we often are, they always ask, "What is the hardest part of your job, mister?" For me, clearly the hardest part is dealing with matters that impinge upon morality.
Differing views have been expressed in different parts of the chamber. I approach the issue with, I must say, a great deal of sympathy for what the Deputy Minister for Justice said in his speech. I frequently chastise the Executive, but it is to its credit that it has brought before us today's debate. In Scottish family law, it is clear that there are lacunae and difficulties. Even Lord James, who sits on the Tory benches, accepts that there are matters on which we must go forward.
At present, I am minded to support the reductions in separation periods from five years to two years and from two years to one year. That said, having listened to the points that Fergus Ewing and Mary Mulligan made, I am equally persuaded that there are good arguments against making such a change. I find this area difficult because it is clear that the time limits—whether they be two years and one year or five years and two years—are perfectly arbitrary. Why cannot they be 36 months and 18 months? There is no logic to the time limits, but there are times when, sooner or later, we just need to make a decision.
As I said, it is to the Executive's credit that it has introduced a bill that deals with important issues that affect our society. Our party has a free vote on the bill, but our general overall view is to support some upgrading of the law. My position is that I recognise that our society has changed, although I may not always have liked or been happy with the changes. Perhaps I am just becoming middle-aged—I sometimes feel that I am growing into my father—but I recognise that some aspects of our society that I might not wish to see are with us to stay.
The law has a duty to reflect, and to be able to deal with, those aspects of modern-day society; it should not ignore them. We cannot have a legislative system that lives a lie. Whether rightly or wrongly, if we now have a society in which more children—or substantial numbers of children—are born out of wedlock, we have an obligation to ensure that the law both reflects that and recognises those children's rights. We need to strike a balance, but we need to go with that.
Some aspects of our society, such as gross domestic product and unemployment, can be measured. How can we quantify the happiness of an individual who wishes to leave a long-term marriage and enter into a new relationship? How can we quantify the distress for the other individual who does not want the relationship to break up? How can we quantify the unhappiness of a child whose parents are in a loveless marriage or a marriage in which there is violence? It is also difficult to quantify the problems that arise in single-parent families, but we know that they exist. It is difficult to quantify those intangibles, but try we must.
At the end of the legislative process, we may decide to sit at five years and two years, as Fergus Ewing and Mary Mulligan proposed. Sufficient time should be made available to ensure that those provisions are fully debated and discussed. If that happens, at least we will have had a debate that will allow us to set down legislation for another generation. We need to do that; Scotland is lagging behind at the moment.
I practised in family and matrimonial law for some 20 years, as a result of which I am clear about only one thing: matters are very rarely black and white. I take cognisance of Lord James Douglas-Hamilton's important point—with which I fully agree. If someone can avoid going to court, they should do so; the problem is that to err is human. I have a great deal of sympathy for the points that Mike Pringle and Sylvia Jackson made. However, in circumstances such as those that they raised, the problem is not the law but the individuals involved. I am reminded of the old adage of King Solomon simply saying that the child should be divided up; we can just imagine the natural mother speaking up and saying, "But a sheriff cannot do that."
A woman might say that she will not give the father access when there is no manifest reason why he should not get it. What do we expect our sheriffs to do in those cases? Would we not be the first to oppose the sheriff if he were to remand the woman to Cornton Vale for 30 days? Do we expect the sheriff to impose a fine of £2,500? Surely that would just impoverish the family and impinge upon the child.
There are instances when the problem is not the law or the sheriff but individual human beings. In many instances, people act irrationally. We have to try to minimise that and to ensure that we fully debate and discuss these matters. Again, in many instances, the best way forward is for people to avoid the legal process. I agree that we should look at reconciliation and mediation. As Christine Grahame said, it is essential to try to take the sting out of the situation in order to avoid the bile and acrimony.
I am concerned that family law is the only area of law in which an individual can be found in contempt of court without sanction. By not addressing what could be done, we are saying that that is perfectly fine. I do not underestimate what would be involved in addressing it, but in too many cases that is what has happened, which is not in the best interests of the child.
I disagree with Pauline McNeill. Thankfully, those cases are few in number—they happen rarely, and powers exist to address the situation. For example, if he so desired, the sheriff could impose a custodial sentence—I have every sympathy with sheriffs who do not take such action—and although he could impose a monetary penalty, he often does not. Ultimately, he could switch custody or residence from the mother to the father or vice versa. However, in many instances, it would not be appropriate to do so. We have to try to rationalise how we deal with those people and, for many people, the only way to go about things is to improve the mediation situation.
The SNP agrees fully with what has been said about parental rights and I am glad to see that other parties are on board on the issue. We also agree that the provisions on cohabiting couples are equally essential. These are value matters, however. I have been married for many years—I forget how many; I will probably be chastised for saying that when I get home. It is for individuals to decide whether to marry. I believe that marriage is a good thing and that it benefits society, but there are limits to what society can do to enforce such views.
We have to recognise that we need both legislative change and cultural change, and the law has a role in bringing about cultural change. In the exchanges that I have had with the minister in previous debates on the subject, I have raised the issue of respect. Respect is not simply to do with antisocial behaviour but involves people recognising not just their own rights but those of their children. People have to recognise the impact that what they want from a relationship has on a child that they have brought into the world. As a legislature, the Parliament has to try to move these matters forward.
We need to beef up the definition of cohabitation. A separation is involved: the judiciary does not decide the law but interprets it, and the Parliament's role is to give clear criteria.
We have seen another side to usually combative speakers who today showed that they can take thoughtful, compassionate and caring approaches to a debate. I hope that those who are watching the debate—the media, the people in the public gallery and those who are watching from elsewhere—recognise that the Parliament is sometimes at its best in debates about very difficult and sensitive issues. The range of views and opinions expressed in such debates does not necessarily split entirely along party lines. As parliamentarians, we spend our time trying to get the best solution for all the people in Scotland.
Today's debate has been a mature one with a number of extremely good contributions. I am a bit surprised to discover that I am one of the members who remembers some of the work that Lord James Douglas-Hamilton did in one of his previous lives in another place. I reassure members that the Executive has not pursued the bill with undue haste; I argue that starting out on something back in 1989, with further consultations in 1992, 2000 and so on, reflects how complex the subject is. Indeed, the Executive is sometimes criticised for not bringing difficult issues on to the floor of the chamber or for not introducing legislation on difficult issues.
In the light of the minister's remarks, is she minded to look again at the amount of time that the Justice 1 Committee will have to deal with the very real complexity of the bill?
Obviously, I do not have exclusive control over the parliamentary programme. However, I understand that, as the bill moves through the committee process, the Deputy Minister for Justice is keen to have the opportunity to engage fully with the committee in resolving some of the issues.
At the outset, I place on record my gratitude to Pauline McNeill, her committee and the Deputy Minister for Justice for working together to try to resolve some of the issues to date. I also want to put on record my thanks to Alan Finlayson for his work on the parenting agreement, to which Mike Pringle, Sylvia Jackson and other members referred in the debate. We have seen the draft agreement, which looks like an excellent piece of work. I am sure that it will help parents who are in very difficult circumstances to try to come to some agreement.
I also want to put on record my thanks to the Grandparents Apart self-help group for its involvement in the work on the charter for grandchildren. Some members of the group have experienced very difficult personal circumstances; we heard some very powerful stories from them.
I am grateful to the minister for mentioning the charter for grandchildren and the work of the Grandparents Apart self-help group. Does she agree that the role of grandparents is a key one? Does she further agree that we should try to emphasise their role on the face of the bill? After all, grandparents make a huge contribution to the protection of children. Will she give careful consideration to that suggestion?
I give Rosemary Byrne, who has taken a close interest in the subject, the reassurance that she seeks. The Executive wants to ensure that children's best interests are represented and advocated at every stage.
John Swinburne also mentioned the Grandparents Apart self-help group. Its members recognise that the issue is not about grandparents exercising their rights but about what is in the best interests of their grandchildren. I am aware that the group continues to have concerns about the bill as it stands. I give the commitment that the Executive will continue to pursue solutions that will allow grandparents to have a continuing role in the lives of their grandchildren. When we include people in our work at stage 1, it is a sign that we can tease out the difficult issues and find a way forward.
Will the minister take an intervention?
I am sorry, but I need to move on. I have taken a couple of interventions already.
As stage 2 progresses, we will have more work to do. I am thinking in particular about the difficult issues around contact orders and the separation periods involved in divorce. Members have reflected a range of views and opinions on those subjects this morning. However, as Kenny MacAskill and other members recognise, we need to realise that the Parliament is charged with a serious responsibility: we have to put in place a legislative framework that deals with the problems that real families—about whom we have heard a lot this morning—deal with today and which will stand the test of time.
The legislation must reflect Scotland's values; it must reflect the uniqueness of Scottish culture; it must support stability in relationships to ensure the best possible start for children; and it must recognise that marriage holds a very special place for many Scots. Pauline McNeill, Fergus Ewing and Ken Macintosh, among others, recognised that in the debate this morning. At the same time, they also recognised that although marriage is special for people of all religious faiths and of none, people who live in other types of relationship can, and do, give their children the loving, caring upbringing that they need. Susan Deacon and Mary Mulligan gave us powerful reminders of that in their speeches.
Members also recognised that marriages break down and that there is domestic violence. I witnessed that first hand in a former life as a social worker, when I had to take into care children from some very difficult circumstances when a marriage had broken down.
A balance must be struck. We must weigh up all the arguments and all sides of the story to get that balance right. I wish to give some reassurance: nowhere did we suggest, as perhaps Bill Aitken indicated in his example, that people would have to move towards divorce at a much earlier stage. It obviously must be down to individual circumstances. The challenge for us is to deal with all the complexities that might arise and to put in place the support that allows people to go for reconciliation if that is what they want. At the same time, however, if people decide that a marriage is over, they should be able to move forward without acrimony, as Ken Macintosh said.
That is the challenge for us. After today's debate, I am heartened by the belief that the Parliament can rise to that challenge. We have to take that challenge on, as we must take on many other complex issues. We cannot shirk the task. We experienced some difficulties in the debate this morning, and those are exactly the difficulties that sheriffs and others face day and daily when taking decisions about the lives of children. They, too, have to get the balance right.
Contact agreements are often very difficult to arrive at. We should recognise, however, that some 90 per cent of cases are resolved without people having to go to court. Mary Mulligan, Marlyn Glen, Sylvia Jackson and others raised some of the very difficult issues that we will have to consider—I am thinking in particular of domestic violence and getting contact agreements that work for both parents and children. A contact agreement that will be right for a toddler may not necessarily be right for a child at primary school and certainly will not be right for a teenager who might be developing their own life in the transition to adulthood; they must have a say in the process.
I have looked with great interest at models from elsewhere, and I know that the committee looked at the Australian example in particular. I have made it very clear that we will listen to the suggestions from the committee and others about how we can improve the situation; Kenny MacAskill highlighted that point well this morning.
I am not afraid of proposing tough sanctions or taking difficult decisions. However, we must pause and reflect when we talk about enforcement. Is Parliament willing to take those steps? It is already possible to fine parents; it is already possible to jail them if they do not agree to contact orders. Would community service add anything? What would the effect be on the children in such circumstances? Should we not instead encourage parents to see children as people in their own right rather than as property? Should we not be encouraging adults to recognise their responsibilities to children, and their responsibilities when relationships break down?
I am aware that I have to wind up. I want again to thank the committee for its involvement to date. We have tried to listen; we have indicated that we will lodge a number of amendments at stage 2; and we will reflect very closely on the debate this morning.